Chastity contacted me tonight and apologized for the mistake in giving the Painweaver Band to the rogue from my UBRS raid incident. All I wanted, was for her to admit the mistake and to ensure she delegates loot distribution better in the future. I guess she didn't like all the extra attention she was getting from my message board warrioring.
In a strange turn of events, I invted her into a west Dire Maul group. She brought along a kick ass warrior and we finished the instance in just under an hour. No decent loot dropped for me, but she got two new armor pieces. It was good to see her enjoy the loot, and hopefully understand how I loot distribution should occur in a group setting.